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I’d definitely make something to summarize my 2011 but not now. In the meantime, let me share some random thoughts.
“Always give them the benefit of the doubt.” I didn’t know what that meant when I was a kid. But when I asked my mom about it, of course, she had an explanation. As per this site, it means, “to believe something good about someone, rather than something bad, when you have the possibility of doing either.” That exactly what I grew up with. I was taught to look at the good side, the hidden kindness or honesty on everything. Or sometimes, just take what it is. Then move on. Move forward. Do something about it, if you must.
It’s frustrating to personally know people who hardly do that anymore. They do the opposite. They suspect. They judge. Usually, I wouldn’t do much about it. Because I believe, I don’t have any business with other people’s opinions or feelings or judgement. Sometimes though, I cannot take it anymore. How cruel it is to be judged and be talked about. Especially behind you, that you can never defend yourself.
Essentially, why judging people makes a conversation interesting and enjoyable to some?
Please, let me remind everyone of this.
It doesn’t have to be other people.
It’s another new year. It wouldn’t hurt to include this in our resolution list.
I commend all those who do their best to understand. Really, it’s hard ‘cos the other side is so tempting and easy and fun. But, just not right.
HAPPY 1.2.12 Y’ALL!
P.S. I’m definitely not coming clean on this but, as much as possible, when it’s inevitable, I just let it go in one ear and out the other. You can always try it. :)
